Mo & Phindi are relationship strategists, radio contributors and co-authors of the book: Love Isn’t For Cowards
Choosing to lose, actually wins in marriage

Marriage is for losers. We arrived at this conclusion when we nearly walked our separate ways, about three years into ...
When you are wrongly accused of infidelity

Being constantly accused of something you know you are innocent of is frustrating.
Spending Christmas with the in-laws

No matter how much you play it down, spending the Christmas holidays with someone else’s family is a humongous step, ...
What to do when the kids walk in on your ‘private time’

Few moments in a couple’s intimate life are as awkward and that inhibit sexual desire than the fear of getting caught ...
Why you should balance your career with your marriage

Modern romance often means no-one is home to make dinner — or if someone’s at home, they’re suffering loneliness, ...
Why people stay in abusive relationships

One of the most common questions people often ask about relationships where toxicity and abuse are prevalent is, “Why ...
True love, not romance, is the main ingredient of a strong marriage

Feelings-driven romantic love fizzles out with time, while true love is strengthened by time, commitment, and shared ...
Don’t ignore those relationship boundaries

If someone steps on your foot, depending on how hard they stomp on it, you’ll either ignore, whisper or scream.
Closure after a break-up is overrated

Sure enough, your brain craves an authentic narrative to make sense of what happened between the two of you, especially ...
How to make marriage work for millennials
With a shift in personal goals, values and roles that differ greatly from previous generations, more and more ...